Stories from the graves in Cuckfield - Ralph Wigram

We continue our series of features looking into the lives of those buried in Holy Trinity Church yard by telling the story of foreign office informant Ralph Wigram. Known as the ‘great unsung hero’ of the Second World War, Wigram, at great personal risk, kept Churchill informed in detail on German rearmament during the 1930s.


By Claire Cooper

Ralph Follett Wigram was born on 23rd October 1890, at Egginton House, Bedfordshire, the only son of retired army officer Eustace Rochester Wigram and Mary Grace Bradford-Atkinson. He was also the grandson of the Right Reverend Joseph Cotton Wigram, Bishop of Rochester and had a younger sister, Isabel.

Wigram was educated at Eton and University College, Oxford where he obtained a second class degree in Modern History. While at university he was a keen ‘boatie’ and records show he was cox for the Second Torpid and Second Eight of 1920 and the First Torpid and Second Eight of 1911.

When he left Oxford in 1912 he spent time working in a boys’ club in the east end of London, was also a scout master and taught at the working man’s college, later lecturing in economics at Leeds University. He is described as gentle and shy with ‘an arc of hair falling forwards, cutting across his forehead like an English knight’.

When the First World War broke out he wanted passionately to join the army and serve on the front line, but was turned down.

In 1916 Wigram travelled to Washington DC where he was employed as a temporary secretary at the British Embassy. In September 1919 he passed into the Foreign Office where, as Third Secretary in the central department, he acquired an expert knowledge of the peace settlement and attended many of the post war conferences in France, Italy, and Belgium.

{This is just an excerpt from the full article published in the February 2017 issue of Cuckfield Life magazine - available in shops and Haywards Heath Sainsburys from 14th February.}

Dig out your Cuckfield Passport

The search to find the oldest Cuckfield passport is hotting up!

Life-long Cuckfield resident Evelyn Stenning has entered the fray with three original passports numbered 672, 673 and 674.

“Two of the passports belonged to my parents Sid and Olive Stenning and the third is mine,” said Evelyn. “We must have got them together as they have consecutive numbers.”

She also has a two modern passports from 2009 and 2011 but these are not numbered.

Current mayor Wilf Knighton launched the search for Cuckfield’s oldest passport shortly after he was elected in November. He has offered a bottle of champagne to the person with the earliest numbered Independent State of Cuckfield Passport.

The first passports were issued when Cuckfield was declared an Independent State 50 years ago. 

Early passports cost five shillings (around £2) and declared the holder as a ‘Freeman of Cuckfield’ for one year. Passport holders were able to ‘pass freely and without hindrance in Cuckfield’s Ancient Boundaries’, were protected within the boundaries, and were exempt from paying any custom duty on articles bought in the village!

Passports were signed by the Mayor at the time of issue. “Mine and my dad’s passports are also signed by Keith Fordyce, a well-known radio presenter at the time,” said Evelyn.

Sue Burgess, of the Cuckfield Museum, also sent in a superb example: Cyril Pike’s No.73 passport – but as this is an exhibit it won’t count sadly!

If you have an earlier passport than Evelyn and would like the chance to win a bottle of bubbly, email a photo of it to editor@cuckfieldlife.co.uk or call 01444 884115 by the end of February.

Great Daffodill Appeal comes to Cuckfield Local market

Great Daffodil Appeal 2017 - Saturday 11th March 2017

Great Daffodil Appeal 2017 - Saturday 11th March 2017

Cuckfield resident and professional florist Belinda Campopiano will be taking part in the charity flower event which takes place during the month of March.

Chez Fleur will once again be at Cuckfield Local market (outside The Talbot) on Saturday 11th March selling gift wrapped daffodils to raise money for Marie Curie.

Then, later in the month, Belinda will be holding a workshop at The Old School, where she’ll demonstrate how to make a beautiful hand-tied and gift wrapped bouquet. “The workshop would make an ideal gift for Mother’s Day,” she commented, “or mums, daughters or sons could all come along together!” At the end of the demonstration Belinda will also be showing ideas of how to arrange supermarket flowers too!

The cost of the workshop (25th March at 10am) is £48 per person and includes everything you’ll need to make your own bouquet to take home and tea/coffee. 

As a special offer to Cuckfield Life readers, if you book before Wednesday 8th March, you’ll get £5 off the ticket price. Just mention the magazine. Call Belinda on 07811 892644 for more information.